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3 months old is an optimal age for a kitten to leave its mother and littermates and begin establishing relationships with its new family. By this time kittens are properly developed physically and psychologically, socialized with other cats and become more independent. Once the kitten moves to its new home, it’s important to build trust, continue social education and prepare the kitten for potentially stressful situations that may occur in its new life. Here’s how to socialize a 3-month-old kitten.
Prepare a Safe Personal Space
Moving to a new home is an incredibly frightening and overwhelming experience for a kitten. To minimize the stress, introduce your kitten to the house gradually. At first, provide a secure and quiet place where the kitten can feel comfortable and protected and where it will live for the first days after bringing it home. A small cat-proofed room, bathroom or large pet enclosure are good choices. Make sure that this environment has key resources, such as hiding and resting places, water and food bowls, a litter box and a scratching area. This will allow the kitten to safely investigate new surroundings at its own pace and habituate to sights, smells and sounds of the house.
Once your kitten feels safe in one room, you can encourage it to explore other parts of the house. Again, let your kitten control the situation and decide where to go. Supervise your kitten initially during these exploratory trips and make sure that it always can retreat to safe room.
Introduce the Kitten to the Family
Introduce new people one by one. Wait for your kitten to get used to their presence and approach then reward with treats. Avoid loud noises and excessive movements and never force the contact if the kitten chooses to keep its distance. Make sure that you’re giving your kitten safe and positive experiences. Be patient and let your kitten’s behaviour be your guide. Visit your kitten frequently but keep sessions short as kittens quickly get tired.
Regularly Interact with the Kitten
Human-cat interactions should be natural, positive and consistent. Stroke your kitten gently every day during the times it approaches. Once it enjoys being stroked, you can begin picking it up. Hold the kitten carefully and pay attention to its behaviour and body language. If the kitten seems nervous or tense, end the session. Respect your kitten’s boundaries, don’t rush the things and eventually it will come to trust you to handle it.
Talk to your kitten softly all the time to teach it verbal communication. Consistently use the same phrases when you provide for its needs or handle it so your kitten will quickly learn to associate your words with your actions or certain events. Also listen to your kitten’s responses and try to understand its body language and vocalizations. This will help to build trust, improve the kitten’s confidence and strengthen your bond.
Regularly play with your kitten to channel its energy towards toys and give it an opportunity to improve its hunting skills. If your kitten is shy, start with a wand toy so your kitten won’t have to worry about its personal space and will be able to focus on its “prey”. Never use your hands and feet to play with the kitten.
Reward social and friendly behaviour with treats and affection and ignore antisocial behaviour.
Gradually Introduce the Kitten to New Objects, Living Beings and Situations
Make a list of events and experiences that might happen throughout your kitten’s life and expose the kitten to these experiences in a positive way. For example, your kitten might need to get outside in a carrier, travel by car and meet a veterinarian. You can teach your kitten to enter the carrier, tolerate car rides and handling by strangers slowly and gradually by incorporating these experiences into its daily life and training the kitten to associate them with positive things. This will make such situations familiar, predictable and enjoyable so the kitten won’t become overwhelmed and stressed out when you actually need to visit a veterinarian.
Work with your kitten on one new situation at a time and take small steps. Have realistic expectations as there will be setbacks. If the situation becomes unpleasant, distract your kitten with a toy and end the session on a positive note. Next time return to a previous step or try a different approach.
Live in Harmony and Protect the Kitten from Stress
Protecting your kitten from distressing experiences is as important as creating positive experiences. Try to anticipate and minimize unpleasant and unpredictable situations, introduce changes in your kitten’s environment slowly and in a positive manner.
Make playtime, mealtime, one-on-one time with your kitten regular and predictable. Create a routine for litter box maintenance. Don’t leave your kitten home alone for extended periods.
Share responsibility and make sure that everyone in your family is on the same page. Discuss your kitten’s socialization, household rules for the cat and clarify your expectations. Decide which cat behaviours will be unacceptable in your house, which areas should be “cat-free”, etc. Once you establish the rules, stick with them and don’t confuse your kitten.
Teach children how to interact with and handle the kitten. Supervise them at least at the beginning.
Provide multiple hiding places and vertical space for your kitten in case it needs to be left alone.
At 3 months of age kittens are very active and curious. They learn about the world, try to understand their place in it and push their limits. It’s important to feed their eager minds by offering them opportunity to explore their environment, meet a lot of different living beings and learn many important skills.
3-month-old kittens are very brave and can “test” their social environment so it’s also a good time to set the rules and boundaries and be extra patient. Create a calm atmosphere, treat your kitten as equal and offer your kitten as much attention, affection and understanding as possible to establish the perfect lifelong relationship.
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